Some very good points here.
One important thing to keep in mind: Remember, if your family faces too many stresses at once (new house, move, kids, schools, new job, etc) it can put an incredible strain on your marriage.
This is something to consider carefully. You may think you're winning the game, but if your spouse leaves you on account of the stress, you're back at square one (or worse) financially. You've just lost half of everything you had and now your life - and your kids' life - is a mess.
Think about renting for a while until you get settled and get to know the new place well. That way you'll pick the right property at the right price and won't be rushed into something you'll regret. You've got the rest of your life to get rich. Take it one step at a time.
Just my two cents...
QUOTE (HeatherBrandt @ Jun 2 2009, 01:48 PM)
Many good points mentioned here. Things that come to mind:
What other areas do you need to invest in (or deal with) so your business/investments are a success? Luck happens to those who are prepared.
-updated will, disability insurance, life insurance for both of you.
-health insurance, gone for a physical/dental appt lately?
-do you need tools for your trade, a workshop, a truck?
-pension, RRSP's, RESP's, savings from your past life?
If all the above are in place, something horrible could happen and you'll likely be able to carry on.
Positives of renting:
-likely to rent something less expensive than you would buy, won't feel the need to spend lots on decorating/furnishing
-allows you manoeuvre more quickly out of undesirable situations.
-no/little repair/maintenance cost
-if you don't like renting, it will motivate to get your business moving, do real estate research, or fix any problem that is hogging your money.
-it will give you time to figure out your household budget in a new province.
-it will provide time for you and your spouse to choose your primary residence together without being rushed and regretful.
-provides a networking opportunity with likeminded people. Find an intelligent/savvy landlord, learn from him/her. Perhaps get a heads up on property?
-gives you an excuse to say no when your kids ask for pet.
-you can still write off business related expenses (portion of rent re
ffice, shop, utilities) against your income.
I like the duplex idea. But you must buy right and view it as an investment that you are living in temporarily, rather than your perfect primary residence.
Also, you and your wife are in the middle of one the most stressful times in your life! Both of you will be working hard, have too little sleep, and your kids will surprise you everyday (good and bad!). Give yourself some cushioning (financial, emotional, social, and spiritual). The winner is the one that keeps playing the game. The problem here is that you are playing multiple games at the same time with different rules (business, marriage, family, investments, self--in no particular order) and you need to "win" them all. Luckily, you have influence on the rules.
Good luck,